What is the most common red flag at the beginning of a relationship that people ignore?
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Sachin Jha
A very close friend of mine was all about this girl. He’d not get tired telling me about her and how good he felt being with her.
It was the beginning all-perfect phase, both of them liked each other at hearts.
However, with time, as they got more comfortable with each other, the relationship began to lose its color and slid into dullness.
At most times, he wouldn’t reply to her texts, decline her calls and other sorts of ignoring. The girl sticked around for a time as she believed she could “fix him.”
Later on, she realised their roads have separated thus, she slowly drifted apart.
I, for one, knew this relationship was doomed to end this way because I’d been with him long enough and noticed certain patterns.
The most assuring behaviour you can notice in your partner is how they treat their parents.
When I hung out with him and his parents called, he’d either talk rudely and hang up the call halfway and not let them finish or he’d begin to shout loudly on phone if they spoke for too long.
You may not get to see how their ex was, but you have the most reliable people in business, parents.
They’re the most loved but taken for granted people in their lives and if they spend time with them, listen to them and give them enough importance, the signs are green.
The way they’re with their parents profoundly reflects how your relationship with them in the future is gonna look like.